When we are girly around men, they feel more masculine and it brings out their best qualities. Girly doesn’t mean childish. It involves the way we move, sit, talk, dress, speak and all things female. Femininity makes us feel good about ourselves even when we are totally alone.
Though femininity is sometimes thought of as weakness, when it is directed toward masculinity, the slightest brush with it tends to make a man feel more vulnerable. Men recognize feminine influence on them more than they might admit. They have mixed feelings about it. Part of it delights them but part scares them because they feel more defenseless. It disarms them. If you take advantage of a good man by using this skill to manipulate, you may not get a second chance. He will likely see you as a threat and build an emotional wall. If you are sincere however and protect him emotionally, he will love you for it.