First I want to let you know I think your book is fantastic! At first I was pretty skeptical about your principles really working. I'd been brought up to believe "The worse you treat a man, the better they treat you". So I really had trouble with accepting him as he is.
I have been a Christian about 14 years. My husband, raised Catholic, become born again almost a year before we were married. I felt I was above him spiritually so I was always finding fault with his spiritual outlooks. Well to make a long story short, these past few weeks I've been using only a few of the ideas in your book. The results are beautiful! My husband and I are closer than we have been in a long time. I intend to follow all the steps in your book as best I can. I ask my husband why we were so close and getting along so well and he replied "It's because you've changed". Thank you again for helping me make my marriage come alive again.